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<rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" version="2.0"><channel><description>You may call me Fish or Firefly 19(childhood nicknames)I live with too many house plants (they/them)Bisexual</description><title>Burn or freeze, just have fun</title><generator>Tumblr (3.0; @forgettingoceans)</generator><link>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/</link><item><title>iridepigs:
twinkcommunist:
In case anyone’s wondering is because...</title><description>&lt;img src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/dfb31da249261b02faac5f9c17bb1c50/tumblr_pan727Z2O51vjcb7vo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://iridepigs.tumblr.com/post/175236063071/twinkcommunist-in-case-anyones-wondering-is" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;iridepigs&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://twinkcommunist.tumblr.com/post/175225817897/in-case-anyones-wondering-is-because-getting-an-x" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;twinkcommunist&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;In case anyone’s wondering is because getting an x ray once is so barely harmful that it rounds to zero  but standing in front of an x ray emitter 40 hours a week for years will definitely kill you&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;

&lt;p&gt;If I go to the bar and have one drink with the bartender I’ll be fine. If the bartender has a drink with every patron then they will die &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175285328543</link><guid>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175285328543</guid><pubDate>Tue, 26 Jun 2018 18:34:07 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>lbardugo:

stadwatch:
When Water Sang Fire - Leigh...</title><description>&lt;img src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/40485b67c89af0b8f6f5308700158704/tumblr_p7im27hrXo1wd3dmwo2_r1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/b96edaf4b3249d032f7d6d76b5ec405d/tumblr_p7im27hrXo1wd3dmwo5_r1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/78b15e54d5d3d6739559b0a04512e266/tumblr_p7im27hrXo1wd3dmwo4_r1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/b66ac8233ede01a365518ec53b326302/tumblr_p7im27hrXo1wd3dmwo1_r1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://lbardugo.tumblr.com/post/175283327425/stadwatch-when-water-sang-fire-leigh" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;lbardugo&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://stadwatch.tumblr.com/post/175275171678/when-water-sang-fire-leigh-bardugo-but-when" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;stadwatch&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;When Water Sang Fire - Leigh Bardugo&lt;/b&gt;
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;small&gt;&lt;i&gt;
But when Signy looked at Ulla and grinned− shyly, a star emerging at twilight− all of that bitterness dissolved, gone like words drawn on the ocean floor, and Ulla felt nothing but love. That moment tied her to Signy forever.  
&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/small&gt; &lt;/blockquote&gt;

&lt;small&gt;&lt;b&gt; ♥ @sixofcrowsnet jobs: pride ♥&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/small&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;TLoT edits mean the world to me. This is beautiful! &lt;br/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175284874563</link><guid>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175284874563</guid><pubDate>Tue, 26 Jun 2018 18:18:19 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/0ac9cfafb3102fbd814c6dad4410e1b2/tumblr_paft9ykFmO1rx70ego1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175284866108</link><guid>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175284866108</guid><pubDate>Tue, 26 Jun 2018 18:18:01 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>deathtokillian:

Guess who is going to get a job at Starbucks</title><description>&lt;img src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/413a6f7663a7c067fa11f3679f548590/tumblr_pay1xy372C1t4sw5oo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://deathtokillian.tumblr.com/post/175279266417/guess-who-is-going-to-get-a-job-at-starbucks" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;deathtokillian&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;Guess who is going to get a job at Starbucks&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175284576118</link><guid>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175284576118</guid><pubDate>Tue, 26 Jun 2018 18:08:06 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>glumshoe:

agnosticalchemist:

glumshoe:

Today I dove into a spectacular roll under one of those...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://glumshoe.tumblr.com/post/175284018529/today-i-dove-into-a-spectacular-roll-under-one-of" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;glumshoe&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://agnosticalchemist.tumblr.com/post/175284002047/today-i-dove-into-a-spectacular-roll-under-one-of" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;agnosticalchemist&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://glumshoe.tumblr.com/post/175283859689/today-i-dove-into-a-spectacular-roll-under-one-of" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;glumshoe&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;Today I dove into a spectacular roll under one of those grated barriers that works like a garage door. I thought my boss would be impressed by my Indiana Jones-like agility and bravery, but I was wrong. Apparently it’s not fun and cool to roll under them when the barrier is being &lt;i&gt;opened&lt;/i&gt; instead of &lt;i&gt;closed&lt;/i&gt;.  &lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;

&lt;p&gt;You’re both living in an Office style comedy&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;

&lt;p&gt;aw shit I’m Dwight aren’t I &lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175284542103</link><guid>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175284542103</guid><pubDate>Tue, 26 Jun 2018 18:06:54 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>forcesunleashed:
Gay kids do not exist to teach homophobic parents the errors of their ways

Stop...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://forcesunleashed.tumblr.com/post/153936494426/gay-kids-do-not-exist-to-teach-homophobic-parents" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;forcesunleashed&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Gay kids do not exist to teach homophobic parents the errors of their ways&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Stop wishing gay kids on homophobes! 9 times outta 10 it will end in literal child abuse&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175284480443</link><guid>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175284480443</guid><pubDate>Tue, 26 Jun 2018 18:04:41 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>littleblackchats:

burningstandard:

#NeverAgain
Source: The...</title><description>&lt;img src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/2070f87837df4d5c881248de87d41979/tumblr_p4k03aC7D51qd8br9o10_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/a771e07cd6c4ea5d0e0e4bba78cabd61/tumblr_p4k03aC7D51qd8br9o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/143ae206c643b79f7785651e56206dbe/tumblr_p4k03aC7D51qd8br9o6_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/95fbd5d57023dac6eea3e654b7c084b6/tumblr_p4k03aC7D51qd8br9o9_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/9df471e7997be79cf03af81b0bb3f4a0/tumblr_p4k03aC7D51qd8br9o7_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/59f2b52874e24855d4ca4a1efbfdcb10/tumblr_p4k03aC7D51qd8br9o2_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/eeec81ad80adc2cdcf18f38f4c5a166d/tumblr_p4k03aC7D51qd8br9o3_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/07d7f33212d4c576885210450ec73cf9/tumblr_p4k03aC7D51qd8br9o8_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/ba347b776d1d35df72f9ba82ac83fa6c/tumblr_p4k03aC7D51qd8br9o5_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/c9633f8d9a4a1200bce5296e4c1d63a0/tumblr_p4k03aC7D51qd8br9o4_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://littleblackchats.tumblr.com/post/171192419494/burningstandard-neveragain-source-the" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;littleblackchats&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://burningstandard.com/post/171162791660/neveragain-source-the-atlantic" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;burningstandard&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;#NeverAgain&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Source: &lt;a href="https://www.theatlantic.com/photo/2018/02/florida-gun-control-protests-photos/553883/"&gt;The Atlantic&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;when their leaders act like children, children become the leaders they need&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175283794613</link><guid>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175283794613</guid><pubDate>Tue, 26 Jun 2018 17:41:01 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>organically-indigo:

robregal:

its-a-different-world:

thehighpr...</title><description>&lt;img src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/25a8ee48c92c56c6a0793d62bd9eb833/tumblr_oet2wfXm2y1tvczt7o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/0695db2f97004839887cfef0d777b4fe/tumblr_oet2wfXm2y1tvczt7o2_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://organically-indigo.tumblr.com/post/152482460180/robregal-its-a-different-world" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;organically-indigo&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://robregal.tumblr.com/post/151650491835"&gt;robregal&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://its-a-different-world.tumblr.com/post/151645222183"&gt;its-a-different-world&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://thehighpriestofreverseracism.tumblr.com/post/151586637653"&gt;thehighpriestofreverseracism&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Noirbnb….like Airbnb, minus the racism.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Black people inspire me everyday, the world gives us shit and we take it and turn it in to something beautiful.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Yooooooooooooo!!!&lt;br/&gt;I will be using! Lit!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Support my bro Stef and Noirbnb. For real. Not even saying that because he’s my homie. That’s a legit business and it’s for us!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;

&lt;p&gt;FYI: They changed the name to Innclusive.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;…If this post is gonna continue floating around and people really wanna support them, they should know that most likely they will not find noirbnb but they definitely WILL find Innclusive.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175283706258</link><guid>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175283706258</guid><pubDate>Tue, 26 Jun 2018 17:37:54 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>darkpuffin:

ileolai:

gondorsfinest:

feitanswife:

sailurmars:
...</title><description>&lt;img src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/66f9d26c76d42c274bbe00d6c4b99490/tumblr_om43nr0DkT1ter55so1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://darkpuffin.tumblr.com/post/163385693198/ileolai-gondorsfinest-feitanswife" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;darkpuffin&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://ileolai.tumblr.com/post/158500594289" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;ileolai&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://gondorsfinest.tumblr.com/post/158479653179" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;gondorsfinest&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://feitanswife.tumblr.com/post/158416540573/sailurmars-mycroftrh-gerbthenerd-reblog-if" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;feitanswife&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://sailurmars.tumblr.com/post/158410183724/mycroftrh-gerbthenerd-reblog-if-youre-part-of" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;sailurmars&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://mycroftrh.tumblr.com/post/157887009823/gerbthenerd-reblog-if-youre-part-of-a-hostile" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;mycroftrh&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://gerbthenerd.tumblr.com/post/157842381429/reblog-if-youre-part-of-a-hostile-nation-thats" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;gerbthenerd&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;Reblog if you’re part of a hostile nation that’s declared war on Australia&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Oh my god though guys you don’t know the best thing!  The best thing is: &lt;i&gt;he’s right.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gay_and_Lesbian_Kingdom_of_the_Coral_Sea_Islands"&gt;The Gay and Lesbian Kingdom of the Coral Sea Islands&lt;/a&gt; is a &lt;a href="http://micronations.wikia.com/wiki/Gay_and_Lesbian_Kingdom_of_the_Coral_Sea_Islands"&gt;micronation near Australia&lt;/a&gt;.  This is their flag:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;figure data-orig-height="154" data-orig-width="250"&gt;&lt;img src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/01d55150a9e7f7f5997d67e63b9362c0/tumblr_inline_om62gnKpS81ryrh6l_540.png" data-orig-height="154" data-orig-width="250"/&gt;&lt;/figure&gt;&lt;p&gt;The Gay Kingdom (as it is colloquially known) was founded in 2004 in protest against Australia’s legal stance against same-sex marriage.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Here are some of their stamps:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;figure class="tmblr-full" data-orig-height="354" data-orig-width="440"&gt;&lt;img src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/a9e97c538aa372b9c794fac0abc16c5d/tumblr_inline_om62k5vvjc1ryrh6l_540.jpg" data-orig-height="354" data-orig-width="440"/&gt;&lt;/figure&gt;&lt;p&gt;They are currently ruled by Emperor Dale I, and their currency is the Pink Dollar.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;And, indeed - &lt;a href="http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2015/04/18/australia-s-lgbt-only-island.html"&gt;they declared war on Australia for not recognizing same-sex marriage&lt;/a&gt;s performed outside the country.  &lt;a href="http://www.pinknews.co.uk/2016/03/29/watch-this-self-proclaimed-gay-kingdom-is-at-war-with-australia/"&gt;(Second link.)&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;

&lt;p&gt;You’re telling me there has been a Gay Island this ENTIRE TIME and I’m only just finding out about it????&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;

&lt;p&gt;WHAT&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;okay, but not enough people know the details on this. people at pride were upset about gay rights in australia. so they decided to sail 200 miles into the coral sea &lt;i&gt;just ‘cause&lt;/i&gt; and put a rainbow flag on a fucking empty island out of spite. and i’m talking empty. no inhabitants. &lt;a href="http://www.pinknews.co.uk/2016/03/29/watch-this-self-proclaimed-gay-kingdom-is-at-war-with-australia/"&gt;zero&lt;/a&gt;. it was a flat piece of land with a bit of dry grass. now it has a camp site and a post office. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;figure class="tmblr-full" data-orig-height="467" data-orig-width="600"&gt;&lt;img src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/86403e4de3f0bfffbdcfce9ce46bc003/tumblr_inline_omx4ez7pid1sx5w2e_540.png" data-orig-height="467" data-orig-width="600"/&gt;&lt;/figure&gt;&lt;p&gt;they have a declaration of independence that talks a bit about gay rights and then just flat out &lt;a href="http://gaykingdom.info/sovereign.htm"&gt;copies&lt;/a&gt; the “life liberty and the pursuit of happiness” part from the american declaration of independence. and here’s the best part: the founding group actually elected their emperor. he was originally going to be called the “administrator” of a republic. their &lt;a href="http://gaykingdom.info/history.htm"&gt;website&lt;/a&gt;, however, says that “&lt;i&gt;upon legal advice, his title was changed to that of Sovereign on the grounds that under Australian law a defacto prince trying to claim his crown cannot be charged with treason&lt;/i&gt;”. so they made it a kingdom and he now claims to be a descendent of edward ii.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;everything about this is glorious and everyone should know about it.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://gondorsfinest.tumblr.com/post/158479653179" class="tmblr-truncated-link read_more"&gt;Keep reading&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Not one of you mentioned that the anthem for this nation is I Am What I Am by Gloria Gaynor. Not. One. Of. You.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;

&lt;p&gt;A very good micronation. Very good.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175283692643</link><guid>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175283692643</guid><pubDate>Tue, 26 Jun 2018 17:37:26 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>dominickcarisi:
</title><description>&lt;img src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/cb2a2f028d93447ff57d11596aa2be6b/tumblr_paoj9zvQaO1uela32o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://dominickcarisi.tumblr.com/post/175191069433" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;dominickcarisi&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;figure class="tmblr-full" data-orig-height="211" data-orig-width="500" data-tumblr-attribution="jacktheelephant:5i8x_MzAxxLXyICLBcNLUg:ZVckpl1khtdHc"&gt;&lt;img src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/392ea9a32f8162823d22a39f382e85c0/tumblr_noa00amyD31u5gaxgo1_500.gif" data-orig-height="211" data-orig-width="500"/&gt;&lt;/figure&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175283677928</link><guid>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175283677928</guid><pubDate>Tue, 26 Jun 2018 17:36:54 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>fangirlinginleatherboots:

churchyardgrim:

shuttheupfuck:

fangirlinginleatherboots:
teaching...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://fangirlinginleatherboots.tumblr.com/post/172328727687/churchyardgrim-shuttheupfuck" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;fangirlinginleatherboots&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://churchyardgrim.tumblr.com/post/172328526272/shuttheupfuck-fangirlinginleatherboots" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;churchyardgrim&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://shuttheupfuck.tumblr.com/post/161965431228/fangirlinginleatherboots-teaching-children-that" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;shuttheupfuck&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://fangirlinginleatherboots.tumblr.com/post/161109213622/teaching-children-that-they-are-allowed-to-walk" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;fangirlinginleatherboots&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;teaching children that they are allowed to walk away and cool off if they are feeling overwhelmed might literally save their life as teens/adults&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;could save other ppls lives too.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I feel like the key here is letting them know that &lt;i&gt;they can come back to the discussion&lt;/i&gt;, and that you’re not just sending them to their room with different words&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;“go calm down” is just dismissive, but “go calm down and we’ll talk more about this in half an hour” validates the child and lets them know that you’re not just brushing them off &lt;br/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;its also worth noting that “go calm down” as a statement, regardless of what follows it, comes across as dismissive. add plurality to the comment.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;“LET’S go calm down.” “LET’S take a break” “WE BOTH should step away”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;never expect a child to do what you yourself arent willing to do in the situation. &lt;b&gt;otherwise, its just a time out.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175283369943</link><guid>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175283369943</guid><pubDate>Tue, 26 Jun 2018 17:26:19 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>spacemonkeymafia42:
i-might-look-fly:


hustlerose:

hustlerose:
what is it about boobs that makes...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://spacemonkeymafia42.tumblr.com/post/174011806678/i-might-look-fly-hustlerose-hustlerose" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;spacemonkeymafia42&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://i-might-look-fly.tumblr.com/post/173857910445/hustlerose-hustlerose-what-is-it-about-boobs" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;i-might-look-fly&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://hustlerose.tumblr.com/post/173651574620/hustlerose-what-is-it-about-boobs-that-makes-them" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;hustlerose&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://hustlerose.tumblr.com/post/173651460935/what-is-it-about-boobs-that-makes-them-so-fucking" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;hustlerose&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;what is it about boobs that makes them so fucking excellent &lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;figure data-orig-height="383" data-orig-width="284"&gt;&lt;img src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/1efaa7bcfa4d4d8dd71ee2598a842b56/tumblr_inline_p8bwgtTABW1sjgtv4_540.png" data-orig-height="383" data-orig-width="284"/&gt;&lt;/figure&gt;&lt;h2&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;yeah&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;

&lt;p&gt;the person theyre attached to&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;

&lt;figure class="tmblr-full" data-orig-height="125" data-orig-width="250"&gt;&lt;img src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/a999abd31ba84a8669b0af3a96021c59/tumblr_inline_p8wsmcEnkX1u0oco6_500.gif" data-orig-height="125" data-orig-width="250"/&gt;&lt;/figure&gt;&lt;figure class="tmblr-full" data-orig-height="124" data-orig-width="250"&gt;&lt;img src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/381d47080bbe933893aff77ee27d3708/tumblr_inline_p8wsmcQHcq1u0oco6_500.gif" data-orig-height="124" data-orig-width="250"/&gt;&lt;/figure&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175274700323</link><guid>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175274700323</guid><pubDate>Tue, 26 Jun 2018 11:49:02 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>thisbetri:
whyyoustabbedme:

You know what I call that?...</title><description>&lt;img src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/22d67feda092e9d06bdda63cd0b0f8b7/tumblr_pavshntpZC1wiqjwwo2_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/decb323c39eb7fabcafab8e74cb68cad/tumblr_pavshntpZC1wiqjwwo1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://thisbetri.tumblr.com/post/175238999674/whyyoustabbedme-you-know-what-i-call-that" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;thisbetri&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://whyyoustabbedme.tumblr.com/post/175238176042/you-know-what-i-call-that-growth" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;whyyoustabbedme&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;You know what I call that? Growth!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;

&lt;p&gt;THIS IS THE FUNNIEST SHIT LMAOO&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175274693213</link><guid>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175274693213</guid><pubDate>Tue, 26 Jun 2018 11:48:43 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>aaronjohnnson:
any rich men follow me who want to buy me things and get nothing in return</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://bruh.info/post/123829452589/any-rich-men-follow-me-who-want-to-buy-me-things" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;aaronjohnnson&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;any rich men follow me who want to buy me things and get nothing in return&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175274686728</link><guid>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175274686728</guid><pubDate>Tue, 26 Jun 2018 11:48:26 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>708090svintage:
keanu reeves and river phoenix for bruce weber...</title><description>&lt;img src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/4ee07aba0e4e88c264a90167fd6905cf/tumblr_oiwhya36LL1vnwvy3o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://708090svintage.tumblr.com/post/155072368611/keanu-reeves-and-river-phoenix-for-bruce-weber" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;708090svintage&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;keanu reeves and river phoenix for bruce weber 1991&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175274218858</link><guid>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175274218858</guid><pubDate>Tue, 26 Jun 2018 11:28:22 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>sonneillonv:
theoreocat:
Sometimes it’s possible to have too...</title><description>
&lt;video  id='embed-5b32d765e525f026509783' class='crt-video crt-skin-default' width='400' height='225' poster='https://78.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ouubq4mgiY1qdfmcv_smart1.jpg' preload='none' muted data-crt-video data-crt-options='{"autoheight":null,"duration":57,"hdUrl":false,"filmstrip":{"url":"https://68.media.tumblr.com/previews/tumblr_ouubq4mgiY1qdfmcv_filmstrip.jpg","width":"200","height":"112"}}' &gt;
    &lt;source src="https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/video_file/t:gmvnoR5pKKLs7eh31e_ZEQ/175274102488/tumblr_ouubq4mgiY1qdfmcv" type="video/mp4"&gt;
&lt;/video&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://sonneillonv.tumblr.com/post/174894809331/theoreocat-sometimes-its-possible-to-have-too" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;sonneillonv&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://theoreocat.tumblr.com/post/170161331648/sometimes-its-possible-to-have-too-much" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;theoreocat&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;Sometimes it’s possible to have too much determination.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p style=""&gt;I was waiting for the payoff and I was NOT disappointed&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175274102488</link><guid>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175274102488</guid><pubDate>Tue, 26 Jun 2018 11:23:10 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>the-real-ted-cruz:
theexodvs:


the-real-ted-cruz:

@ boys:
if you say no, and they still kiss you,...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://the-real-ted-cruz.tumblr.com/post/174744039634/theexodvs-the-real-ted-cruz-boys-if-you" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;the-real-ted-cruz&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://theexodvs.tumblr.com/post/174742960124/the-real-ted-cruz-boys-if-you-say-no-and" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;theexodvs&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://the-real-ted-cruz.tumblr.com/post/167885269019/boys-if-you-say-no-and-they-still-kiss-you" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;the-real-ted-cruz&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;@ boys:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;if you say no, and they still kiss you, that’s not okay&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;if you say no, and they still get handsy with you, that’s not okay&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;if you say no, and they still make you have sex with them, that’s not okay&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;if you say no, and they do something to you physically or sexually that makes you uncomfortable, that’s not okay&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;if you say no, and they verbally make you feel bad about it, that’s not okay&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;if you say no, and they guilt you into doing something sexual with them, that’s not okay&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;if you say no, and they threaten you, whether verbally or physically, that’s not okay&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;it is so important for boys to know that they &lt;i&gt;can&lt;/i&gt; be victims to sexual assault and abuse. so often are boys told that they are “lucky” if someone wants to be sexual with them and male victims of sexual assault dismissed because boys are supposed to, “like it.” this has to change. boys: you don’t deserve the abuse or assault you endure, nor are you weak because you felt like what was happening was wrong. it &lt;i&gt;was&lt;/i&gt; wrong, and you are NEVER at fault for someone else taking advantage of you.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This post is incredibly tone-deaf.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;

&lt;p&gt;I made this post because I received an ask from a young boy who was forcibly kissed at a party. He was very embarrassed and upset and he didn’t know what to make of what happened. It broke my heart. Yes- this stuff most often happens to girls. I am well aware of that, and I have made many posts for female victims. I made &lt;i&gt;this&lt;/i&gt; post specifically for the boy who sent me that ask, and other boys who have experienced something similar. By making this post, I’m not derailing any discussions. I’m not making conversations about female victims about male ones. I made my own post so any boy who was scared or confused about something terrible that had happened to them could see this and maybe have them understand that somebody cares. Some young boys need to hear that. These posts are not always made to spite those who want to have a conversation about female victims.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175274085143</link><guid>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175274085143</guid><pubDate>Tue, 26 Jun 2018 11:22:24 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>jakesweetandcynical:
queenofslash:


hummingbird-hooligan:

queenofslash:

iloveamelia:
i deserve...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://jakesweetandcynical.tumblr.com/post/174253286139/queenofslash-hummingbird-hooligan" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;jakesweetandcynical&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://queenofslash.tumblr.com/post/174210456811" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;queenofslash&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://hummingbird-hooligan.tumblr.com/post/174137991367/queenofslash-iloveamelia-i-deserve" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;hummingbird-hooligan&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://queenofslash.tumblr.com/post/174095019586" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;queenofslash&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://iloveamelia.tumblr.com/post/173785144876/i-deserve-unrestricted-access-to-old-churches-and" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;iloveamelia&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;i deserve unrestricted access to old churches and castles i want to know all the secrets &lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;i work in a castle and have unrestricted access and let me tell you sometimes knowing all the secrets……is worse&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;

&lt;h1&gt;please share with us the secrets &lt;/h1&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;what you guys want then, huh? You want royal family gossip? You wanna hear about the Duchess of York sneaking her lover into her room through a secret door? Or do you want the gross shit, like the skull stuck on the pike on top of the keep which nobody really knows how it got there but maintenance says it’s too high up to get down? Or the fact we tell kids the skeleton in the store room is ‘just a dummy’ but in reality nobody can break the grate without collapsing the wall? &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Ya’ll wanna hear about the&lt;b&gt; G H O S T D O G&lt;/b&gt;????? &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;

&lt;p&gt;I in fact want to hear all of those like way too much for it to be healthy&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175274077918</link><guid>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175274077918</guid><pubDate>Tue, 26 Jun 2018 11:22:06 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>wintermoth:
aquadraco20:

pyroteknich:

mycatisabunny:

I feel like I should make a post about this...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://wintermoth.tumblr.com/post/173226292947/aquadraco20-pyroteknich-mycatisabunny-i" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;wintermoth&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://aquadraco20.tumblr.com/post/164979996042/pyroteknich-mycatisabunny-i-feel-like-i" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;aquadraco20&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://pyroteknich.tumblr.com/post/162136251790/mycatisabunny-i-feel-like-i-should-make-a-post" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;pyroteknich&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://mycatisabunny.tumblr.com/post/160822524087/i-feel-like-i-should-make-a-post-about-this" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;mycatisabunny&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I feel like I should make a post about this because it’s not something that’s very well-known, and that Americans in particular may need to know about given the uncertain state of our healthcare system at the moment. I’ve wanted to write this out for a while, It’s kind of a long post, so sorry about that!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If you have an emergency and have to go to the hospital, you’ll owe the hospital &lt;b&gt;a lot&lt;/b&gt; of money.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;i&gt;(I got into a car wreck and broke my ankle and my arm. My hospital bill was around $20,000)&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;You’ll also owe the ambulance provider, if you need one.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;i&gt;(My ambulance bill was about $800)&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;You may get separate bills from the anesthesiologist or surgeon.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;i&gt;(My anesthesiologist bill was $1,700)&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;You may need follow-up appointments.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;i&gt;(My orthopedic surgeon billed me for the appointments and his surgery together and it was about $1,000)&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;You’ve also got to pay for medical equipment you need afterward, like crutches or a walking boot.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;i&gt;(Mine cost about $75)&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Altogether, I ended up with almost $24,000 in medical debt from one car accident. That’s a really scary number for someone like me who makes $10/hr at a 12 hour a week job.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;I got my debt down to $1075 by making some phone calls and submitting some paperwork.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The first thing I did was contact the hospital. They don’t make it easy to find, but many hospitals (perhaps most hospitals?) have financial assistance programs for people who can’t afford medical bills. I don’t make a lot of money, and I have bills to pay, so they were able to help me. &lt;br/&gt;I called the billing department and asked if they had any assistance programs for low income people who can’t pay their bills. I had to call multiple times, and I got transferred in circles by people who didn’t know what I was talking about. Finally, I got an appointment with someone in “Eligibility Services” (I don’t know what other hospitals call it, if it’s something different). I had to bring my pay stubs and copies of all of my bills. When I got to the hospital for the appointment, nobody knew what I was talking about so I had to wander a little to find where I needed to go. I spoke with the guy in Eligibility Services, and I waited for a decision on how much of the bill they would forgive. &lt;b&gt;A month later, I got a call telling me it was totally forgiven.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I did the same thing for my ambulance bill and my anesthesiologist, but the process was a LOT easier. I just had to mail some paperwork and it was totally forgiven.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I didn’t bother with the medical equipment suppliers, since the bills came from separate companies and I didn’t feel like going through the process twice for $75. I was assured at the hospital that they had similar programs for debt forgiveness, so I could have probably avoided paying that too.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The only thing I couldn’t get taken care of was the surgeon/follow-up appointment cost, but they were able to put me on a no-interest payment plan.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Medical debt is scary because it’s something that can come from stuff that’s already really scary. I didn’t need the burden of $24,000 in debt on top of trying to get around on a crutch with a broken arm (it’s not easy, believe me!).. but I can’t imagine what it would be like with a bigger debt or a more severe medical emergency.&lt;br/&gt;I see lots of people in even worse trouble than I was in, both financially and medically. Please know that there are options for you when that GoFundMe doesn’t do enough. Even if your income is higher than mine, it’s worth a shot even for partial debt forgiveness.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I am about 900% sure there are people who don`the know this. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;

&lt;p&gt;PLEASE READ THIS IF YOU LIVE IN AMERICA AND HAVE MEDICAL BILLS&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p style=""&gt;I had to do this once as well and I can ABSOLUTELY confirm that this is true. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Get in contact with the hospital. Don’t just…sit there and let the anxiety grow and panic and then &lt;i&gt;ignore it&lt;/i&gt; in an effort to find peace. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175273819673</link><guid>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175273819673</guid><pubDate>Tue, 26 Jun 2018 11:11:07 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/3a537a05f32533fa0d58e48eaf6f54e9/tumblr_pavimh6EgY1rvzucio1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175273757458</link><guid>https://forgettingoceans.tumblr.com/post/175273757458</guid><pubDate>Tue, 26 Jun 2018 11:08:29 -0400</pubDate></item></channel></rss>
